Hey Jeep sorry to hear your story. If its any consolation, you aren't alone and you did absolutely nothing to create this mess. I completely agree - I lost my best friend, wife and lover. I never thought my wife would cheat or I'd be single again. It literally never crossed my mind with her. Everyone here has been dragged through a nightmare and we are the good ones who tried to fight to keep the thing together but our wives were to selfish or had their own demons. I always remember a great quote "No matter where you go, there you are". Our wives can't run from their troubles and those troubles will follow them into the next relationship. I did nothing wrong to make her cheat. We had an amazing marriage but my wife still left me for a guy she barely knows. As you say it is so disheartening that they can just abandon the marriage and us so easily. I'll end with another quote for us from Shawshank Redemption: "Get busy living or get busy dying."
