How do I know if my Husband is having a MLC?

[love1st]

Thank you Jeep74. It's been an extremely emotional roller coaster these past couple of months. However, I try to keep my life tempered with the fact that I have tremendous blessings; I'm healthy, my son is healthy. We have a home and food. I have a job I love and I'm well educated, so I'll always have means to earn money. I have a great deal of supportive people and am well loved by family and friends.

My WAS has given me the gift of awakening. I am discovering myself at 49, things I had long forgotten. I am beautiful, both inside and out. I am loving, kind, thoughtful and appreciative. The more I read about MLC, the more assured I am that my WAH is going through one. It is difficult to understand his choices and I may never - shoot, HE may never. And, I'll be here for him patiently waiting, until I can no longer wait or until it's no longer in my best interest to wait.

I just read Jack Bean Stalk's letter from to a LBS from a MLC'r and cried my eyes out. It is so telling of the EXACT place I am at with my WAH.

I'm so happy that we are encouraged to post here. BTW - You were right - Jeep74 - by suggesting I stop texting my WAH "good morning" AND to both you and Cadet for advising I keep my tone and mindset with WAH professional. He texted me a pic of a dinner he was having with mutual friends late last night (3 hr difference time zone). I neither responded to that, nor texted him this morning. I haven't heard a word from him all day, nor has it really bothered me too much. When he calls me, and he will, I will be upbeat, positive and kind.

Thanks.