I know who the OM is but have never looked him up to see what he looks like or other info. Is there any benefit to doing that at this late stage? My thought is it would haunt me to envision his face with my wife but I find myself curious every once in a while.
I actually know who my W is dating. We happen to have mutual friends. Although my W does not talk about him she is going above and beyond for him in ways that she never did for me. Everyone tells me that it is a rebound R and won't last, but its still hard no matter what. Don't bother looking him up. I don't think it will do any good knowing what he looks like. The only reason I checked up on my W's OM was because he had a criminal background and I wanted to ensure the safety of my children. Other than that there is nothing you can do. She is with him now so the best thing would be is to focus on yourself and not their R.
M: 37 W: 36 T: 16 M: 11 D2: 8,3 PA: 2015 WAW: 2016 W Filed: 2017 2/07/2017 W officially dating OM2
