I don't think any of it is true when they flip. They were looking at option B until A started back up again.
You are probably right. She knew what she was doing was wrong so she wanted to love me but really wanted OM and didn't think it was realistic at that time. By the end of January she reached the point she wanted to know if OM was a possibility or not and as soon as she found out OM was on the way out with his wife and possibly available, she was done with me. IMO the only thing that will stop her relationship with OM is time with him to show her he's not everything. She told me he has no flaws or negatives. Just crazy.
