Originally Posted By: 180Man

How to end the conversation on my terms without being awkward?
Me: Ok, this has been a really good conversation. I'm going to go home and think about things. See you later. (if SHE goes in for a hug, just give her a regular friend type hug) Is "See you later" too much, should I use "Take care of yourself" instead? That seems somewhat final...


I like your response - "This conversations has been good. Thank you. Talk to you later." Just like you would say to a business colleague.

Originally Posted By: 180Man

Ones I don't have good answers to....

Her: I think you should date other women
Me: .....

Her: I think we should just be friends
Me: .....


Her: I think you should date other women
You: I appreciate your thoughts, but the joy in my life is not your responsibility. I'm going to do what I need to do to make myself happy. My DB coach gave me this line for a similar situation.

Her: I think we should just be friends
You: I look forward to us us always being amicable.


M:39 W:36 - D1:2 D2:6
11/19/16 BD1: ILYBNILWY, EA/PA
Dec/Jan: MC, pursuing, not DBing
1/11/17 BD2: W wants 1 month break
2/1/17: Divorce Remedy. Start DBing
2/17/17 BD3: W - separation to start D process