If only she would let me learn how to be a good husband with her, instead of forcing me to apply what I have learned here to someone else. We don't need new spouses to learn how to be good spouses, but so many people would rather just give up and start new with someone else.
So much truth in that. Mine told me that she shouldn't have been expected to tell me and that I should have known. But then again, how was I supposed to know? Especially after not being told of all the abuse until after BD?
There are moments in this life when you are so confident in the rightness of your actions, that not even for a second do you consider the option that you might be wrong.
