WW unexpectedly texted me yesterday, a rare event.
WW: Are you home? Me: No why WW: I have some time and was thinking about coming by (Sounds encouraging, right? Before all I'd get was "Coming by the house to get some things") Me: What for WW See my dog, get some stuff (So not encouraging. At all.) Me: Can come by tomorrow. You wanting to talk? WW: What is it you want to talk about Me: You don't want to talk? WW: Depends Me: On? WW: What you want to talk about WW: Why can't you just say Me: Just apologize about some things. You have anything you want to say? WW: I already would have said what I wanted if I thought I could trust you Me: What did you want to say?
No reply to that. Then I realized I misinterpreted what she was saying. She didn't mean she had anything she wanted to talk about but was just stating that she doesn't trust me.
She said she didn't trust me on 1/10 when she was at the house as well. I'm sure it stems from how she knows I have audio recordings. It's still offensive that she sees that as a huge violation of trust but all the lying and cheating that she did apparently wasn't. Can't see the forest for the trees. So it doesn't seem like she's really out of the fog and is still irrationally angry at me.
Not sure if she'll be coming by the house tonight but if she does I will have to be very calm and make sure I don't get upset if she makes comments like that. Initial reaction is to say "Trust ME? Look at what all you did!" So I need to make sure I bite my tongue, smile, think, validate, move on.
