Some perfectly great co-parents still manage to parent children who don't do ok w/r/t divorce. And our spouses have no idea how it's going to go, they just can't face it.
It never ceases to amaze me as to how many parents who destroy a family fall back on this line.
Script! I not only get the kids are resilient and kids will be fine...I get the kids will be happier if their mom is happier...sigh.
Same with me Gordie, mixed with "i'm a better mother when you aren't around."
M:39 W:36 - D1:2 D2:6 11/19/16 BD1: ILYBNILWY, EA/PA Dec/Jan: MC, pursuing, not DBing 1/11/17 BD2: W wants 1 month break 2/1/17: Divorce Remedy. Start DBing 2/17/17 BD3: W - separation to start D process