Possibly the clues of respect is found within OM. What the OM provides are the areas of respect? My Ws first reaction about OM to be was he is a man who is in her life more. His attitude towards his daughter, his works in art and dance, his academic career, his caring attitude,his smartness and emotional intelligence, his ideas. For some of these I think I gained her respect back but she is always expecting more and her heart is broken. She talked about those to me. So yeah as in the rules, you try to match up but dont make it look odd. And of course one more thing same job. I have to say W quit from that job. But didn't cut contact with OM. She really wanted to be away. Hey same office. work environment brings respect.
Me: 43, W: 43 M: 16, T: 18 D - 7, D - 7 ILUB: 26 August 2014 Still living together
