interesting why she brings up your friend and her choice of words you wonder is she glad you are dating to relieve her guilt or jealousy and looking for information obviously she found out, so she must be interested also sound s like she has done some unacceptable stuff in her own eyes and does not see herself as worthy
When my xh and his W reached out last year to the kids, I didn't say much my son deleted it I personally read all their communication to my kids to make sure it was acceptable and to get information about his life now- my D pursued an interaction which never happened, instead he or his wife wrote some lame apology about not being ready Probably best to just support the girls and keep it real neutral with xw so she doesn't blame you for their unwillingness to speak to her
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