my wife can't decide (II)

[WillDo]

Do things differently. Yes, thank you. Of course, if it isn't working, change your method.

Ups and Downs. I am questioning life more and more during the down. Maybe it is my bi-polar nature but it is the fact of life that things are sinusoidal.

My work on trying to save my marriage, brought in front of me many many methods.

Therapy; I first went to my previous doctor. Even took my W there. She felt that as a male doctor he was biased. Well at one point he asked her to give a chance for me to talk. In short; he told me to focus on my children, accept my mistake, draw a line and build up a new marriage.

Divorce Busting and MLC articles on the internet; showed me 180. don't fight. don't try to communicate. it is a phase. Spec. MLC.

Gottman; Really showed me the science and the positive approach. Still applying them.

All I want to be is Save My Marriage.