RD!!! Did you come out of retirement?? Great to see you posting and hope all is well - sorry for the hijack Huddy :-)
BTW, I do think that is good advice from the guys - you don't have to give up on the marriage or a possible reconnection at some point. But don't put your life on hold, or watch, or wait. Make plans just for you and let her get on with her own life. Of course you can keep the door open a wee crack if that's what you want....
:-) x
T 13 M 7 Me 48 H 46 SS 15 BD 7.14 PA D final 5.16 (H filed)
We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus
