WW is moving into local apartment for 6 months. Sent me a very sterile email announcing her next move. I plan to file for divorce. Has anyone's wife come back from the fog after divorce is filed?
Clemson -
Why are you filing for divorce?
Hw will your life be different if you are divorced?
Couple reasons. First, she would likely file for divorce if I don't. We are doing the divorce amicably without attorneys and so far so good. We have all the documents drafted and signed already. Second, financially I want to stop the bleeding and not fund her fantasy with OM. Third, I plan to move forward with life and I think to do that I need to end this madness. I cannot be married to a woman who continues to choose another man over me. That is the very essence of marriage to me. The A was one thing but this abandonment of our marriage for OM is unacceptable. I really have a hard time being the fall back option. So if we are truly meant to be, then we will reconnect down the line. But until then, there really isn't anything to save.
