Can I ask a personal question? Why do you not have any kids? Just trying to get a better understanding why someone with no kids would want to be with someone who has 3 small children.
No problem. Friends have wondered if this was an issue too. First off we loved to travel and were in no hurry for kids. Both of us had busy careers and we enjoyed being with each other. Kids were always something we wanted to do. WW went off birth control about 2 years ago and we had been trying to get pregnant since up through the time of the A. WW was convinced she could not get pregnant naturally but did not seem stressed about it and I did not pressure her about it. I checked with her quite frequently to make sure she wasn't stressed about it and did not feel like a failure. WW's sister was recently also unable to get pregnant and they did IVF successfully so we watched that whole scenario first hand. WW's plan was to start IVF this January but of course we didn't make it to that point because of the A. WW went back on birth control after the A because I didn't think bringing a baby accidentally into this mess was smart.
