[quote] I sometimes felt ridiculous trying to comfort her about her lost "love".
You did what??? Please don't tell us you were trying to soothe her about losing her affair partner. If anything, that's a direct pass to the friend zone.
Fair criticism. Let me clarify. I didn't sit and hug her and say its okay about OM. I just said its normal to be sad about someone you cared for and lost but it was the right thing to do.
