So Confused and Conflicted (3)

[Bdog37]

Take care of yourself first, Wsh. You have a long road ahead of you. We are here for you, my friend.

Agreed. We have all been, or going, through the same thing you are and there is some sound advice in these forums. Nobody here wanted a D and if we all could change our pasts we most likely would. For me, DB isn't about saving my marriage anymore. It is about saving myself. My M is over, and was over before I found this site, but I am still here so I need to learn how to stand up tall and move forward. Believe me, its the hardest thing you will ever face but you will get through this my friend.