I can't count how many times I've laid awake at night wondering what the h3ll happened to my wife. How did things get so bad so quickly?
In my case they only got bad quickly for me. My W had been unhappy for at least a year (possibly 2) before she started her A in January of 2016. Maybe the signs were there, maybe they weren't. Regardless, I wasn't paying close enough attention.
Anyway, I'm glad you're moving on with your life and finding some peace. Keep at it!
M46 W48 M11 T14 S11 D8 BD: 2016/05/27 In-home separation: 2016/11/23 Nesting: 2017/06/11 W moves out: 2018/01/07 W goes public with OM: 2018/07/12 I ask for a divorce: 2018/12/14