I am going to go out on a limb and assume you apologized to your wife. Now, actions speak louder than words. No, I don't mean trying to do the sexay times with her or try to win her over.
I am a woman and there are certainly qualities some women universally find appealing. Women generally leave when they are done. That doesn't mean they don't come back or ever reconcile. However, what kind of man do you want to be? Look, we all contributed to the demise of our Rs. I was a great friend, fantastic partner, and a not so great wife. I know that. So moving forward whether it was x Mr. GB or someone else, if I wanted to be in a R, what did I want to be in that R. But first, I needed to regain my identity. I didn't evn know divorce was an option. There are always options. I had no clue. My xh parents have been married 49 years and mine were married 51. I had to google divorce and I'm a pretty smart chick:) I was slapped in the face. And then I had to work on me because I had this thing called life to live. Who am I? What did I really want? And I can assure you that with the passage of time, I discovered some very painful truths about myself. However, there are also things about myself I really like. What about you? What do you like? What needs some work? What do you want? And I am not asking from a list from your wife. Let's leave her out of the equation for a moment.
And there are things you will learn along the way..some good and some bad.
3 kids BD 12/15/13 (IDKIILY. ) Rope dropped Cirque du Soleil style D final 9-9-14 "Some people are born on 3rd base and go through life thinking they hit a triple." Barry Switzer
