Wouldn't have happened if things were solid. We - along with others - have had this discussion before in your previous thread.
Certainly wouldn't have happened if things were solid. That's where I blame myself so much. I had gotten slack with nurturing the relationship. I was just so comfortable in the marriage and thought we were soul mates and she would never go anywhere. I was treating her the I wanted to be treated, rather than how a wife needs to be treated. Sadly, I learned a hard lesson that the Golden Rule doesn't always work. But I do not believe that things were that bad when she went wayward. She was just in a vulnerable state due to my neglect.
M: 33, W: 30 @BD M 7, T 10 BD: Early Dec W left: Late Dec W got stuff: Late Jan W sent S papers: Mid Feb OM cnfrmd: Late Feb
Pain can yield tremendous growth OR everlasting sadness and bitterness.
