Does anyone have any thoughts for what I should do next? Looking back, I can't believe I have put up with all this. I foresee my WW returning in the future but many issues exist.
Clemson--I'm heartbroken by your situation. I'm going to ask a Q my DB coach asked me: how patient are you willing to be? Sometimes the spouse needs to actually be with the affair partner and separate and divorce before hitting bottom.
Thank you. I am heart broken too. I just want my old wife back but I know that is not possible. I am patient but I cannot just wait and let her test out this other guy. My plan is to move on with life and if she comes back we will see where I'm at. I am confident this new relationship will not work and have told others I think the only way she comes back to reality is to hit rock bottom with this guy. Our counselor said she cannot see reality because of her emotions and her self-desire overshadows our relationship. She sent me an email two weeks ago that she doesn't love me anymore like I deserve. She is very cold to me now like we hardly know each other.
