Originally Posted By: Clemson


Does anyone have any thoughts for what I should do next? Looking back, I can't believe I have put up with all this. I foresee my WW returning in the future but many issues exist.



Clemson--I'm heartbroken by your situation. I'm going to ask a Q my DB coach asked me: how patient are you willing to be? Sometimes the spouse needs to actually be with the affair partner and separate and divorce before hitting bottom.


Gordie 40s W 40s M20+ kids
2016 BD W fantasy affair w OM1 I do everything wrong
2017 I start to DB W says TLTL files for D PA w OM2
2018 I do LRT W drops filing and OM2 situation slowly improving