H had the kids for their winter break this week. Oddly he dropped them off at his parents on Weds (2 hours away) and didn't go back to pick them up until Sat. Seemed like a nice opportunity to take a couple days off work and hang with them, but I don't know who this man is anymore, so it's anyone's guess. D10 called me bawling and hyperventilating begging me to pick her up. She didn't want to go but H told her that if they didn't go it would hurt GM/GF feelings. Not sure why their feelings are ranked above his kids. Circle back to things that don't make sense to me.
1. This story made me so, so sad for you and your kids. How are you managing this parenting situation?
2. Re inviting to dinner after the concert...I see both sides of your argument. If you can look great and have an awesome attitude and have a great time with your kids with your H there...then I'd invite him. If it's going to make everything tense and moody and spoil the evening...then don't.
Gordie 40s W 40s M20+ kids 2016 BD W fantasy affair w OM1 I do everything wrong 2017 I start to DB W says TLTL files for D PA w OM2 2018 I do LRT W drops filing and OM2 situation slowly improving
