Karen, I don't have any advice, but like you it seems that if they see how good you are doing then maybe at some point something will click. That is the way normal people think...right? I think that is the problem. They aren't thinking as a normal person.

I think that if you can keep zero expectations then it should be ok to have him for dinner. You are asking him to join you in taking out the kids after a school funx. It isn't a date. I might be totally off base, but that is my unprofessional opinion.


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Dropped Bomb 7/9/16
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HER DIVORCE IS FINAL...8/18/17
Dropping the rope to SURVIVE & THRIVE!!!