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Thank you Cristy.. I will most likely be calling this week for a session..

Definitely do! Its been very helpful for me. Good use of the money. I originally purchased 6 sessions, but have since bought more just to have for future use.

We are still friend on FB also, however I have noticed that she has already deleted her marriage status and is slowly erasing history of us by deleting pictures of our wedding and other events of us together a bit at a time.. I'm obsessing over that too and its unhealthy but its still a view into her life and possibly what is going on with her but she has never been one to post a lot on fb.. I feel that if I unfriend her or block her I will lose ability to see pictures of our kids that she might post.. but she never has been one to post a lot of those either so maybe I wont..

Will removing myself from her FB and trying to be as NC as possible potentially make her see that I am moving on and she now has lost something? Or will it just give her relief...

Unfriending would probably come across as punitive, which you should stay away from.

Since you are having troubles detaching, I would recommend "unfollowing" her so that you remain friends, but don't see any of her posts. It will hurt to not see pics of your kids, but its probably necessary.

This whole thing is super tough and not easy. We didn't ask for it, but how we react is unbelievably important.