I'm in no way friends with my ex, but we do coparent and occasionally spend time together with our D. How do I get past the hurt? I am pretty far out an dI have no feelings towards him. All feelings have pretty much gone away. I don't care about punishing him anymore, the only thing that concerns me is our D is happy.
You aren't there right now, you may not be anytime soon. But don't worry about being friends.
