Thanks for your post. Boys live with me full time. S11 was spending one night a week with her - but that has evaporated.
She lives alone. I was in her apt once.
She now spends most of her parenting time her at the house S16 has his own life. If she wants to see him, she needs to feed him, etc here.
She is spending some of her non parenting time here too. She is getting involved in our basement reno project etc.
M:50 W:53 MR:20 D:21 S:17 S:11 BD-Sept 2015 Suspected PA Sept 2015-Confronted W & OM Dec 2015 Actually EA In house Sep:Jan/16-May 2016 W moved out:May 22 2016 OM-Intro Oct/17-On scene July/Aug 2017