Its definitely irrelevant. It wasnt healthy for me to think about it. From a legal perspective, my L has everything she needs if it should ever go down that path.

Just need to focus on me, my kids (who are starting to show some issues with everything), and taking advantage of DBing opportunities.

M:39 W:36 - D1:2 D2:6
11/19/16 BD1: ILYBNILWY, EA/PA
Dec/Jan: MC, pursuing, not DBing
1/11/17 BD2: W wants 1 month break
2/1/17: Divorce Remedy. Start DBing
2/17/17 BD3: W - separation to start D process