Thank you Cristy.. I will most likely be calling this week for a session..
As for the NC, how does everyone do this when you have children involved?? We have pretty much been down to only having conversations about the kids as she did not want to talk normal or about us before..
I see the kids daily during the week on her week as I pick them up from school each day so there is a daily interaction with her on her week but not mine. We call the kids each night as well.. We are still friend on FB also, however I have noticed that she has already deleted her marriage status and is slowly erasing history of us by deleting pictures of our wedding and other events of us together a bit at a time.. I'm obsessing over that too and its unhealthy but its still a view into her life and possibly what is going on with her but she has never been one to post a lot on fb.. I feel that if I unfriend her or block her I will lose ability to see pictures of our kids that she might post.. but she never has been one to post a lot of those either so maybe I wont..
I have been very amicable throughout this entire process and have not blown up about the EA/PA like I probably should have and the fact that I am still trying to hold on I feel she is using to her advantage.. she sees that I'm still around and it doesn't phase her..
Will removing myself from her FB and trying to be as NC as possible potentially make her see that I am moving on and she now has lost something? Or will it just give her relief...
