So OM went to talk to his W yesterday and she relayed me the conversation. He still denies they had sex when WW was on her work trip to his town in December. I still really don't believe that. He says they only had sex "3 or 4" times. The last time he was here when he broke it off with WW is when he said oral happened. WW was on her period, he says. What's sick about that is he previously had said that occurred Saturday, 2/18 at night when he told his W earlier that day he was breaking it off with WW. Just had to use her 1 more time. He finally admitted he picked her up at the airport when she went on her work trip and they rode around alone to different job sites WW had to visit. He previously said he was driving around a "car full of people". He admitted he had told WW he was leaving his W, which he had never actually told his W. Not clear on if that means he was lying to WW about it or just hadn't told his W yet. I think he was lying to lead WW along further.
I feel like you are only hurting yourself more by continuing to contact OM's W like this. At this point, you know about the affair. So who cares about the grisly details? Does it matter whether they had sex 2 times or 200 times? Does it matter which things were lies? To me, every time you find a new piece of information, youre only going to do further damage to yourself and any potential reconciliation. You have the intel you need to know what you are dealing with. The details are only going to hurt YOU.
