That's really fair, and logical doodler. I read about the people on piecing, even those whose spouses were remorseful and it's really tough to forget.
In my case, I still have no idea if there was any infidelity. And it doesn't matter anyhow cause husband doesn't want back. He seems to want to be friendly though.
My son was telling me how daddy said it was ok if I went with them to some Waterpark near them. I tell son, "no. Mommy and daddy don't do things together any more"
The friend thing is hard for me. I feel like it's telling him that his decision to end our marriage was ok and the right thing to do. The DB coach felt that the only chance at salvaging a marriage was by building a friendship and then letting that lead to more.
