Well, I have a big update...I found my recorder, it was in my briefcase. I went ahead and listened to it. I confirmed that she was having a sexual relationship with om2. She told him, after we had a fight last Tuesday, that she was talking with her friend about him.
They talked about her life with him in the future, and she said that they talked about their sex.
I am just glad to be out of the muck. I am speaking with my attorney tomorrow or Wednesday depending on his availability.
It just feels good to know that I am making the right choice.
Me:33, WW:30 BD:12/14/16, EA no children Still together