Just to close out the thread. My marriage ended in Divorce. May never know the answers and thats Ok. Was it a MLC or WW or was she just BPD..Sure I can share in the blame.
Hindsight 20/20...I was ill prepared for D-day. Me stumbling into the EA evidence, I could of sat on it for awhile to come up with a plan. I think there was an opportunity to save the marriage but that was a small window of 1 week post d-day.
