Well, things are back moving. I took the kids out all day yesterday (brunch, hiking, taking pictures on our cell phones, and comparing notes, then Starbucks (they got decaff), and STBX took the opportunity to finalize our parenting plan and her complaint. She'll be filing it tomorrow, and the 90-day state law mandated wait period will start. I should be formally divorced in early June.

I'm always surprised how these milestone moments hurt, even though I've known for a long time this was going to happen, and it's hardly coming out of the blue.

Me: 46
W: 44
Married: 17
Together 21
D13; S10
BD: 03.03.15 (Not attracted to you)
Almost 2 years trying, alone, to save marriage
Status now: Divorced (effective 06.13.17)