Ok, need to do some journaling from Friday to today, but going to start with today:
Monday: Received a morning text from W saying she still felt ill, D had wet the bed , and W and had had a ‘terrifying & profound dream’. She asked how I was. She then sent a text saying she loved me.
I did respond – asked her to tell me about the dream, told her I was OK… and then I did respond to the ILY by saying “thank you and I love you”
No response on the terrifying dream, but she has been sending me YouTube links to TED talks and interviews by a famous Belgian psychotherapist and counsellor on infidelity and relationships. (Not sure if forum rules would allow me to give her name) I’m unsure how to respond to this. Much of the info in the videos seem in line with MWD’s thinking and writing. I want to respond but don’t know how to approach it.
What's the opinion of others in the forum? I honestly have no idea what her intent is by this? I'd love to think she was reaching some sort of revelation, but I know I can't think that way, it would be foolish to clutch at straws at this stage.
-- Me: 47 WW: 35 SS: 17 D: 5 T: 7 yrs Engaged: 2 yrs OEA confirmed: August 17 2016 ongoing since April 2016. OEA continues (with occasional breaks) BD2 - W says will visit OM in Jan 18