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Hi
yes you are right on..The LBS takes the full responsibility for pretty much everything
keeping the house together , the kids, finances, ect especially during the Separation -
being there for the kids during the transition
It helps them to have one stable parent available since the MLC is not as available as they may have been
Some MLCers become Disney dads, while others check out totally
Its hard to watch and understand for sure

You seem grounded..It will get easier for everyone in time and the more you can reach out to be there emotionally for your kids, the better they will be

Not that you have to talk about the separation /MLC issue..unless they bring it up
but just so they know they can count and come to you

they will see Dad is different and may not totally get it-

Hang in and keep posting


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