I'm now trying to find other things to do for fun, Jeep. It's hard to get out when you have to go alone. A male co-worker around my age spent like a half hour the other day giving me all this great advice about how to get out and get a life, but he never really offered to do it with me, except once, kind of begrudgingly, "I could even take you out in my boat," after he spent minutes telling me I could go places by myself, like to bars, and just sit down and start talking to people. It felt like, "here's what you need to do, but don't look at me to do these things with you."


M: 33, W: 30 @BD
M 7, T 10
BD: Early Dec
W left: Late Dec
W got stuff: Late Jan
W sent S papers: Mid Feb
OM cnfrmd: Late Feb

Pain can yield tremendous growth OR everlasting sadness and bitterness.