my wife can't decide (II)

[WillDo]

She is strange V. Possibly I came to stage thinking we have been good for a year and have been building up nicely a relationship. Just a hug not big intimacy backfired. She is in a seperate bed. I truly have difficulty. I read the MLC articles. Do what is there. Leave her alone. Read books. Now she is sleeping in a seperate bed. Ignores me.

Strangely though my twin girls got all of us to play cards. I had been playing with them a fee days in a row. They asked my W to join. W took them out to city today. And one of D asked why I wasn't coming saying poor you you havent been out of house this weekend. I did go out and spend my time but it is their instinct. I am so proud of my girls. Past 2-3 years I have been putting effort spending time with them. W noticed the changes (did what I learned here).

Back again. Relationships are mystery. We work on examples, methods.
Saturday she did D talk. She asked me to be logically and leave the house. She asked if she wanted her to call the police. I said go ahead do it. Then she went on about my ups and downs. Telling her about being rude about me to the girls. And asking her when see last saw OM and that I know she is having an affair is ups and downs. Then she said I was typical bipolar and referred to my sturggle with depression (my last episode was 8 years ago and pat myself on the back how I have been dealing the D crisis and working on my marriage). After that I sad yeah call the police have them section me. I am out of the house and in doctors hands. You will achieve a lot. She wants me to leave the house, sell other assests. Leave the mortgage to her (50% paid due my extra hard work where I got a better job. This has been why at a piont focused on my career. What could I do. I was made redundant knowing my wife is pregnant with my twin girls).


I will log about the boundries. My second one is OM contact. She just doesn't get contact is part of an affair. This is a person whom I caught my wife sending nude not revealng but nude pictures to him. She had said she had gone too far and apologies. Well. ontinued contact. celebrate OMs brithday. gave him a present. took a photo and sent it to her mother. she is a lair and manipulates people. And says I am dumb. She is the noblest and smarterest and entellectual of them all. She even gave him a book about love. She thinks I dont see these. Well I cant control her. I am getting a life.