Like MWD says in the walk-away wife video, inexperienced women think that guys think just like they do. "How could he not see that I was unhappy? I've done everything I could do to get him to change." No you haven't. You could have done so much more to get through to me, so that I would know that you really needed this stuff and that you were slipping away from me. Put on a happy face all the time and keep telling me you love me and you are so glad you have me, and how the h3ll am I supposed to take your occasional complaints seriously?? WTF? It's cruel as f***.

M: 33, W: 30 @BD
M 7, T 10
BD: Early Dec
W left: Late Dec
W got stuff: Late Jan
W sent S papers: Mid Feb
OM cnfrmd: Late Feb

Pain can yield tremendous growth OR everlasting sadness and bitterness.