S agreement was mailed to H on 2/6, no word. I finally texted him today to ask where it was at (since he hounded me about it for weeks until it was mailed to him). He said his lawyer still has it and it should be done this week. Makes me wonder what's up since H and I essentially went through all the bullet points and designed it together. It's not like anything surprising was on it, but then his atty has to make money somehow I guess. Hope it can still be filed uncontested, I don't need the stress or expense of that whole mess.
Still running, I'm on week 5 of a couch-to-5k program. I'm registered for a 5k in June so hopefully I should be doing pretty well at that point.
Went out with a girlfriend for Thai last night and went to see some acoustic blues acts which was very fun.
H had the kids for their winter break this week. Oddly he dropped them off at his parents on Weds (2 hours away) and didn't go back to pick them up until Sat. Seemed like a nice opportunity to take a couple days off work and hang with them, but I don't know who this man is anymore, so it's anyone's guess. D10 called me bawling and hyperventilating begging me to pick her up. She didn't want to go but H told her that if they didn't go it would hurt GM/GF feelings. Not sure why their feelings are ranked above his kids. Circle back to things that don't make sense to me.
One thing I hate about this MLC is that the LBS seems to be left behind to clean up the mess, take the brunt of kid frustration/anger... along with the general heartbreak of losing the future that you planned on and believed in. Sometimes it feels like too much on my shoulders. Starting to pack the house as we agreed to get it on the market by April. 3000sqft and no one here but me to do the heavy lifting. [censored].
Anyhow, kids are back after a week with their Dad..the house sure was quiet with just the dog and me. I'm not sure which of us is happier to see them!
I guess everything is on pause until we hear what surprises H's lawyer has in store for us. Like he hasn't taken enough already.
I'm not a Beyonce fan by any stretch, but I've been listening to A LOT of Lemonade lately. It's therapeutic.
Me : 42 Him : 43 M : 18, T : 19 D13, D11 4/16 1st BD (ILYB) 11/16 H wants s, moves out of br 1/17 H rents house & moves out 2/17 OW (he denies PA but EA last winter) 5/17 I filed for D 7/17 D Final
