Honey

That's not so good. Mildly put V.

It's a technique level 4 abuse called belittling. In parlance parent alienation through triangulation. Mouthful by V, means trying to put the children between you. Your lovely kids want to love and be loved by both their parents. It's hard on kids to be this way.

I want to go slap her with a kipper. (English speak) Tell her to wake up, whatever is been mum and dad is their stuff not for children.

Yes, it's time for boundaries and please please start a log of this.

So what is your boundary?

Are there any secondary ones?

What kind of reinforcement can you do?

V


Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose.
V 64, WAW