Hi Irish,

This could be the beginning of her coming out. My ex said to me about 4 months after the D that she had figured out she could not trust what her mind was telling her. You ex comments are similar in that she is admitting she needed help but did not recognize it at the time. If this is the beginning it will still have a ways to go. She will disappear at times, but will reappear and reach out as she come to terms with what happened. She will take a long time to even figure out what she eventually wants. I am still in the middle of this myself. Just keep talking when she wants. Keep her informed on when the girls are ill or something important happens. What comes in the future will be yours to decide when and if that time comes.


Twisting on Life's Rope
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