my wife can't decide (II)

[WillDo]

She basically told them never find a boy friend like your father. He can't get anything right. That is belittling.

She would be warned telling how she is undermuning my relation with the children.

How can I enforce it? Only thing I can think of is getting the kids to stand up dir me. of course then she befriends them. Ok you. ot with me. Yoy sude wuth your dad.