my wife can't decide (II)

[WillDo]

Yesterday and today she is sleeping in a different bed. I do feel that she is being strange. She is being offensive but I am not taking it. No more Mr Noce guy. her makng a mock of me in front of the kids was rude. I told her that. Then I had to tell her that I still respect her despite an affair. She denied the affair and said she doesn't see OM. I asked when was the last time she saw him. She said she doesn't remember. But I do. I saw a picture of him and her having coffee and wesring the sweater she bought for him. Ans I saw the picture not on her phone. On his mothers phone. She sent it to her mother!!!! I kept quiet. I still am. Didnt tell her that. This morning she went oh I think I saw him before xmas. again I kept my intel to myself. And countless other things I found which I didn't tell since 2014. I worked on my change and I did change. Lost weight, decreased workload (missed a promotion), more involvement in house work, tried to take more risks even I felt bad, followed up on all sorts of taks. Watched out for kids needs, taking them to birthdays, afterschool classes. And I did these with joy. Was I not doing tbem before. I was but work was too much.

This time I feel content and really see no reason why I should leave the house, work with her on a divorce settlement. Why should I leave the family home? I am quiet. And to be more quiet and cope increased my lithium levels.

I said nothing wrong. I told my boundries. During sesiion she was told to dk adult adult cinversions. Despite all my well being, she treats me bad. Her choice.