Needing Some Guidance 2

[KCRoo]

So last night she was calling me and texting me. She called me about 8:30 to say she bought a new coat. She walked into an air conditioning unit downtown, and ripped a hole in her old one.

Me: When you get home can you clean up your mess from dinner the other night (she left plates, and trash on the coffee table).
WW: you don't want to do it for me?
ME: no I'm your husband not your mom or your maid.
WW: It doesn't seem like you been my husband.
me: that's funny, your one acting like we are not married
ww: I am sorry that was rude.
I ended the call.

She called me back five minutes later.
ww: did i lose you, or did you hang up.
me: I hung up
ww: Why, I said i was sorry.
me: you were very disrespectful, and I am not going to talk to disrespectful people.

So then this morning she didn't clean up her mess, so i told her again to clean it up. (It must have been hard coming home drunk at 1am.)

She then proceeds to tell me about her friend that got a legal separation, and how her ex is texting her really mean things. I said the friend just wanted the separation so she could try to date her ea partner.

My wife is like that is not it. I said that is what it seems like. She said if we got separated i had better not treat her like that (foreshadowing I'm sure). I said if that happened I would never talk to you again for the rest of our lives. She was like you wouldn't even during the process, I said no, you would just have to talk with my attorney and i would move on. (probably not the best thing to say, but she needs to know I have no intent on being her friend if we get divorced).