Thank you so much for your advice and support, I read your messages before I left for my non-date date.

Andrew, thanks for the male perspective, I have no idea whether he has seen this as a date or just a friendly thing to do as I am single and walking the Cape is not an ideal place to be wandering around alone - like I say, a genuinely nice guy.

HaWho - Cathedral Cove and Hot Water Beach is on my list, its not too far away from me, so when my tent arrives I can go for a weekend. Sounds a beautiful place to visit.

Bright - thank you, its good to have opinions from an outside view, I have been out of the dating game for such a long time and when I met h it was an instant connection and very intense, so I have no clue as to what "dating" looks like lol.

Bttrfly, job, sotto, Coly23, thank you for your advice and support, as always I am truly grateful for everyone here, I am blessed.

So if you want to know what happened on my non-date date it is on my new thread:

http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2731800&#Post2731800