The car that has been hanging outside her house in the evenings has been confirmed to belong to the male coworker that I was strongly suspicious of. I'm going to have to call this a confirmed affair, whether just emotional or physical, given all the evidence that I now have. She can try to say they are just friends, but if it's just his car and her car there.. and he is married with 4 kids... When my wife was telling me about this "nice guy" at her new job, with the "terrible wife", and I became concerned about her becoming too friendly with straight males near her age, she said "he's old". At some point (maybe not that same day), I asked "how old?", and she said, "36" -- only 3 years older than me.
Sandi, is my wife a horrible monster, or is she deserving of forgiveness? Can the lying monster, that treated me like I was Satan for being neglectful, ever truly be trusted again? For 10 years, she was a great girl, for all that I know anyway. She had a temper, but I knew her to be of very sound moral character, and to be a mostly compassionate person.
M: 33, W: 30 @BD M 7, T 10 BD: Early Dec W left: Late Dec W got stuff: Late Jan W sent S papers: Mid Feb OM cnfrmd: Late Feb
Pain can yield tremendous growth OR everlasting sadness and bitterness.
