Sorry all, I've been going through a lot. I have come to the descisik. That I'm not going to fix the relationship. It felt like I was a door mat. She would leave for threes days and the. Come back. I give her the pace he wanted. She would tell me she doesn't want to be mired anymore. I finally gave in, told her she has her wish and talked to a lawyer. I want to thank everyone for the advice and help. I wish everyone the best.

Derrick