Don't worry 2016. You are human. And with these types of emotions at play we are bound to say things in ways that we are not proud of. But there was truth to it, no?
Anyway. I am convinced that if your spouse wants to return, nothing you say will deter him. Just like if your spouse wants to leave there is nothing you can say or do that will convince him to stay.
It's hard coming to terms with the lack of control we have in all this.
Except we do have control and that's in how we move forward.
The best advice I received to cope with acute BD was in one of my early threads when I posted as julie. It was that you should be...
