Figuring it out - WAW with Affair

[KevinIn]

I've never been addicted to drugs, but i think i just felt what its like.

Was just around the wife for 10 minutes during a kid exchange. She was cold, trying to keep busy with other stuff, and wouldnt look at me.

Somehow i felt good around that. Its like a drug you know is bad for you, but you keep coming back for more.

Important note: i stuck to DBing. No relationship talks. Didnt say love you. No touching. Left quickly, etc.

[KevinIn]

How long before the LBS should start dating?

I've been debating this too. Someone on this board said "go out and fet your feet wet. Just dont get anything else wet." I like that idea. Its good to socialize and build confidence.

She may say she is in love with this coworker, but it sounds like she don't know what love really is. Wait until her fairyland R is over and reality sets back in.

Thats my hope. Ive completely backed off her and am not asking questions. She can learn it on her own and come back to me on her own if she wants to. According to OM's wife, he is not very helpful around the house, kinda lazy, and not an involved parent, which will annoy my wife.

[Woke_Up]

[Ugh. Sorry to hear that. Mine blamed me like the POS she is. Ugh.

I've had that. She went online looking for like minded people because I was always fighting her...

Plus, even if she did give up OM, I would go back to how I was... therefore not willing to give up OM.

Script, as you say.

[KevinIn]

Will do cadet. Out of curiosity, why a new thread?

[Cadet]

Will do cadet. Out of curiosity, why a new thread?

This forum has a limit of 100 posts per thread

[KevinIn]

Click here for thread #2 about the next leg of my horrible journey. Its about separating, mediation, and a separation agreement.