Originally Posted By: Cadet
So within this you can establish some goals.
Things you can actually DO without needing a relationship to DO it.

I guess you are referencing the idea that there are a lot of things that the WAS complained about, but only some of them one can actually show improvement on, without the WAS around. Very good point. My appetite, my health, weight, size, looks, etc. are one of the things that I can work on. It's also ironic how some of the things she complained about, I'd absolutely love to give her, in a second, but she won't let me.

M: 33, W: 30 @BD
M 7, T 10
BD: Early Dec
W left: Late Dec
W got stuff: Late Jan
W sent S papers: Mid Feb
OM cnfrmd: Late Feb

Pain can yield tremendous growth OR everlasting sadness and bitterness.